In Between Life and Death

Forgive me. I wanted to write up what I think of “Zettai Kareshi” but my obsession with INFPs is even greater. ROFL. I’m so amused.

If you find yourself trying so hard to make someone happy that it starts to make you miserable, then the chances are you’re not really trying to help that person at all.

One of the advises given to INFPs from a particular website I was viewing. Freakily true. :/ I wonder if I had been INFP my whole life? How the hell I got ENFP 2 years ago in the first place?! I have always felt that it was funny (and contradictory) of me to be loud and boisterous but going home feeling so drained and exhuasted of my energy. But NOW I KNOW~ *rolls around in mud* It’s quite fun reading all the other profile types as well. heeheehee… my plan to take over the world will be so fast you can barely say ‘or-toh-kay, pal-li!‘ *evil laughter*

Oh shit, so that explains why I keep banging myself against those censor pillars and walls:

Lost in their own world, they will literally walk into walls or absentmindedly set a glass down on the edge of a table and watch it crash to the floor…

Sorry, dad:

Parents of INFP often have to repeat themselves and can become frustrated when they realize their child isn’t listening. If they are feeling upset, or worried, or have their minds on anything else, INFP can be so completely distracted that they really don’t hear you. Their feelings are thundering in their ears much louder than you ever can – or should! <- HAHA SO TRUE!!! My dad always have to repeat himself all the time and get really frustrated with me (then running off complaining to mom; who will not listen to him either) because I’m usually not listening. ROFLOL.

The INFP is forgiving, tolerant, and deeply caring. He or She will accept you for who are and what you are. They do not operate in the domain of judging people because people simply “are”, there are no right or wrong people.

the INFP will greet new people with an open and trusting approach. They operate from the premise that you must prove your are not worthy of trust. However, for the accepting party, this trust comes with an obligation. An obligation if it is misunderstood in its nature, may find the INFP cutting you out of their life without explanation or apparent reason. The issue is when the INFP gives compassion it is in the form of “loan”, it must be repaid with Compassion towards them. The value of this “loan” is directly tied to the the level of intimacy of the relationship. Since the INFP is constantly “loaning” compassion the accepting party is constantly carrying a “balance owed” to the INFP. Fear not though… this repayment isn’t a one-for-one exchange as the INFP lives in a domain of “general reciprocity” and can accept unequal exchanges (provided, in the end, it all equals out).

And the following made me burst out laughing with that oh-so-familiar saying mentioned towards the end of this paragraph:

The INFP’s approach to every situation is to grant trust and respect from the outset. It then becomes yours to lose. It should be noted that if you violate an INFP’s loyalty or trust then you’re DONE! They will never trust you again. But this is unlike the “done with you” of an INTj or INFj. The INFP will still talk to you, they still listen to you. They will let you be part of their lives… but you’ll never ever regain that which you lost because by violating the trust and loyalty you burnt down the house it lived in (if the violation was particularly bad then not only was the house burnt down but its ashes were ground up, spread to the wind. then the land the house stood on was sucked into a black hole -the point being here that the only adage “fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me” holds true for the INFP. And, INFPs don’t like being fooled.

One thing they mentioned about INFPs are that they are very prone to anxiety, depression and withdrawal which I felt was sibei true for me. ROFL AIYAH, I’M SO OBSESSED! I SHALL BE MOVING ON TO OTHER PERSONALITY TYPES NOW I SWEAR!